I did understand her, I am not a woman, but I still let those joyful tears out sometimes, so I understand how she felt, I suppose, we do not have to be too surprising, it is good in some occasions, but in most times, we finds out that the people we present the gift to, might be carried away by the surprised, and so, we might see a joyful tears coming out from them. I have a friend who do not like surprises, he always told me to informed him of a thing i want us to do before time.
Also, most people don't want to watched it, even while knowing that, such tears is of joy, they finds themselves sobbing too, because it might be too much for them to witness. Anyway, something like that is good, and that is what life is all about, as we create that space of happiness in the life of the people's we love and care about.
When I was small, I think within the age of eighteen, I saw it in that exams, that we should write a story that center's on, "tears of joy" To be sincere, I did not want to touched that particular question, since there were others questions to choose from, in that category.
The deal is, I do not like it when someone cry, so writing about a thing like that, seems to me back then, like it was real, so, I did not want to looked at that question on the paper as an option for me to take.
I wrote on another question, and later on, that friend of mine that was smarter than me, brought out the explanation that, it was to write a piece that will ends in good times, and it was something i would have really love to write about, if only I did understand what they mean, because as far as it ends in laughter's, playful or others exciting activities, i like it.
To be frank, I felt bad for not attempting that question, because it would have been something i will love to, but, because of the way the question were asked, I ran from it, and attempt another one that was sounding cool to me.
That was when I understand that, most times, what we heard isn't the way it seems, and also related to the things we see. There are times that, it looks terrible but getting to know that which looks terrible, we finds out that, it was so loving and as well, it was caring.
You see, never should we judge people or things from the onlook, everything are beautiful on it own.
So, next time i saw it, I nailed it down in the way it should be, and thinking about it in general, that is how life is, people work, sometimes, days and nights, depending on their shift, and at the end, they get that pay which they used to take care of their wellbeing.
A friend once told me that the good in hardship is there in life, because, imagine, getting all the thing's we want, and not working a bit, we might as well feel tiring.
working on it own, although it comes with stress, also served it purpose in our life's.
Happy new month beautiful people, I wish you your heart desires.
Image is mine.
Wes & Grindan