It is normal when we moved into an apartment, and the people that has already lived come and cheer us up, give us their own ways of welcome, and enlightening us about the environment, if the environment was a place we had little idea about their ways of life.
But you see when someone comes and start saying irrelevant stuff about other neighbors?, believe me, it is truly a red flag, and he/she will even be the person to avoid if needs be.
Therefore, at this place I moved in years ago, I recalled it was the same thing I encountered, and what I did immediately was to tell her to stop saying stuff like that, because, i wasn't in for condemning people, so right there, i told her to avoid me, because it was so unfortunately for her to start telling me about people bad act in the lodge, when she was just a tenant like other's.
Later on, i discovered that it was so true just as i have thought, because it was her who was involved in many issues at the lodge, i was happy with how things goes between me and her, because, from that very moment, she avoided me, but it wasn't all, because she counted me among people who don't like her in the lodge.
Imagine forming a faction, in a rented apartment? her way of understanding got me thinking a lot. The deal was, I didn't want to know what she wanted to tell me, because i was not ready to joined a factions, or have issues with somebody, i enjoyed my peace of mind.
There is this way that I dislike noise, but sometimes, you find her shouting in the lodge, calling names, and also be saying they have done her all sorts of things in the lodge, meanwhile, nobody was doing her bad, instead, she was the person that was bringing up issues.
Sincerely speaking, I got tired of leaving close someone like her, and I was like asking myself, "how did those people coop staying in the same place with her, because some has lived there for two years, and so was her.
The deal is, I do not keep bad energy at all, a lot of us said many things about bad energy, for me, bad energy comes as distraction's, and i always do something about it, and that is, to go away from it.
And this was one of the reason, i have to relocate from the lodge to somewhere where I can find peace, it doesn't necessarily has to be somewhere fancy, because, it wouldn't be that fancy again when the people that are living there do not fancy themself or the people they lived with.
We can fancy any place ourself, and that will be when the residents is peaceful both in and out, especially, when the neighbors don't quarrel with each other, and they don't tries to have faction between themself, believe me, nothing stop progress than not been associating nicely.
In general, she wasn't a good neighbor at all, and I do not want to rent an apartment close to someone like that again. This experience makes me asked questions about person's in a lodge before I think of renting it.