Sometimes, i do see people struggling to be in one relationship or another, and when it comes to my noticed, i do think about what actually they want to get, by pushing themselves, in a place they are not needed.
Yet, relationship is just simply, and that is, if you are not needed at that place you are, feel free to check around, and, i am sure, you will be welcome elsewhere, rather than fighting a fight of no reason.
Relationship comes from the mind, and if the mind does not accept it, no matter what you do, at the end, it will not just come through, because the person do not feel the same thing you are feeling.
So, when this feeling is not mutual, it will cost a lot of problem to the person who show it. Personally, I detest a thing like that, and I will not ever advice someone to be in a situation like that, because, truth be told, the person who isn't getting that same love he/she is giving out, might even start to loose weight, as thinking will be his new occupation.
Nevertheless. There are some people that love like a magnet, and once they have this feeling's for you, it will now be hard for them to get it off you, but, "are they to be blame?" I think they are not to be blame, because it's not bad to love, although we should love people that love us, and stop wasting our precious time.
Because at the end, who is not for you, will not still be for you, it is better to stop chasing empty basin that can not contain your water, because, in a day, our activities should not be a wasted effort.
Few years back, I had this guy who was very serious on getting married, so, on the contrary, he met a lady and their love started, he was looking forward to have her hands in marriage.
On the day he proposed to the lady, she rejected him, and he was so ashamed in the eatery. The guy is my friend, but on that day, he propose to her, I was out of town, so, I wasn't there to witnessed how it went, if i was there, I wouldn't have seen where to keep my face, as the lady rejected to wear his ring.
I saw him crying on my DM that his girlfriend has refused his proposal, just because he does not have a car, and I asked him, "because of what? he added, "a car". This guy I am talking about is one of the hardworking friend i have, and I am sure, if it was about a car, he was capable, "but does it even make sense?" That she can't accept his proposal because of a car?
We vibes on it, and I find out that even after what happened in the eatery, he was still interested in marrying her. I only sorry him, because I was out of words to say. For me, it was clear already that she doesn't love him. But as he insists, I hope he bought more than one car, because their love seems to be built on car's and luxury's.