we have home by origin and we also have home through peace and love, people want to be at a place where they are value, encouraged and, as well, where they are love.
I have seen a situation where people leave their hometown, and go to another place, just because they lack love in their home, but see one situation or another. Then, they decided to create a home elsewhere.
The deal is, it so tiring to be in a situation, most importantly, when we realized that, the situation is not going to give anything reasonable, but it will still continue without stopping.
People love peace of mind, and among these people that love peace of mind, I think I am included, life does not have any beautiful colors in a day when what people do are quarrels, fight, argue to the last drop, and grow without love for the next person.
That's why we easily see people go elsewhere and start a home, most of the times, we see people living not in their hometown, the reasons are not just for any other reasons, but because they do not want to be in dispute in their entire life.
A man once told me that life is very beautiful with strangers, and by then, I did not know what he meant, because I was like asking myself, "if it means we should not give attention to our family, but strangers alone, so that we can have a beautiful life. But right now, I think i have a clue of what he was trying to say.
Which is, "we have more peaceful life when we tends to make a living in a place where we are giving peace of mind and love, and if we can not get it in that our home, we can as well creates a home anywhere, as far as we have peace of mind there.
I see a home as a place where I feel love, and understanding, yet, that does not take away the fact that, we all have hometown, "that is the place we come from" but always be reminded that if our home do not give us peace of mind, it does not mean that we are limited to creating another home.
And if a thing like that is notice by anyone, I think what is best to do, will be to move or go out of the place, make a living elsewhere, and then, visit the hometown once in a while.
The deal is, our happiness is very necessary to our mental health, it will be very so unfortunate, if a person lived without happy lifestyle, i stop a thing that want to take away happiness in my life, because I have realized that any thing which does that isn't going to give me anything good.
A bird lives in a tree next to our house, the tree is the centre of children's playground, so each time the bird want to relax in it nest, coming there, it will meet children shouting as they were playing. What usually happens was, it will fly out of the nest due to much noise, which makes it to be scared.
Now, I saw the same bird on a guava tree inside our compound, I realized it has been living there for long, and that is because, it finds peace at the guava tree, which has becomes it home.
Image is mine.