I have no other life motto than to be always happy, it is, and will always be my motto, because, no matter what i am going after, I can not let it stop me from being happy, and, if at any point, something i want, stop my happiness, that will means, I am not finding that particular thing, but that thing has become a problem to me.
My Dad always told me to be grateful at any point in time, i did not used to understand why he said those things, maybe, because i was still a child, and didn't understand things in life like i do now, to be frank, i was that child that always want more, and this attitude, mom was aware too, including my siblings, so what they do when item's were to be giving to us was that, mine will be big, and sometimes, a different thing entirely from what was given to my siblings.
Thereafter, growing up to adult age, I have always think about how my elders brother's and sisters coop with that my attitude then, because it was unfair, but it as well makes me to understand that, they knew one day, I was going to realize and change from it, and i did.
Then, there was a day my friend came to pay me a visit, he was my coursemate, I can not remember quite well what brought the topic as at that time, but I recalled when my bro told him that, I am a petting child in the house, so my friend should knows he will be petting me.
The deal is, the guy understand the whole thing that it was childhood habits, and no grown up person will want to keep a thing like that after he has seen what is life.
My bro on the other hand was being funny, he wanted to enter me small, so that i do not denge-post too much in the compound, because my friend came to visit me, the deal is, he sit with us and we talked and laughed throughout the day, till it gets to the time we moved to the football field and watch sports, my friend spent few days with us, and he later travelled.
What am I trying to say, a lot of things give happiness, even in the association of brothers and sisters, there is happiness, and as well, in the presence of our close friend's.
I have learnt a lot of things about life, that's why I do not think it is best to rush into making money, because, happiness isn't gotten because of money, some people believe that, for them to be happy, there just have to be thousands of dollars in their account, as it is the case now in the society, a lot of stuff are happening.
And, this mindset of having luxury's, I have realized that, it can't guarantee the happiness, those who have been there will better explained this, that what guarantee a good life is family, understanding friends, and grateful lifestyle we show in our daily life, because no man can get everything in the world.
Life is good when we are grateful with what we have, work, and also, believed for the best to come, it is worst when we go extra mile, just to fixed ourself in that position of having luxury's, as anything gotten by force don't last.