The reason is, I will not give anybody a reason to be bad to me, starting from the moment I moved into a new apartment, I will mind my business, at that early stage of me moving in the new place, I will hardly shared things, then after a while when I have gotten to know the attitudes of the people who are living there, I will be somewhat free and by that time, I will be able to know the caliber's of people that are living there.
Moving into a new place and start associating when we do not know the person's can brings a lot of problems, at this stage of my life, I think the last thing I want to do or have are issues with anyone, the deal is, I do not know how some people coop with disputes, because for me, a little disputes, I will feel like crying and the situation would not allow me to do any other things for the day till it gets solved, my brothers said that I am too carried away each times, but I do not know, maybe that's the answer, so for me to protect myself from it, I always take time to mingle, especially, when I am moving into a new place that I do not know the people's that much.
This is why I do not like staying in an apartment that would warrant me to share things like bathroom and toilet. what I do is, If I know houses are costly in the environment i want to lived, I will quickly switch to a place where I can find house of a lesser amount and I will pay, at least, a self contained.
Earlier this year, my landlord gave us a noticed that he has increased the house rent, and what I was saving for the rent was the actual amount I paid the previous year, so when the noticed gets to me, I was battling in my mind what I was going to do about it, later on, I make two choices, one was to get a room apartment in the nearby street and the second was, to go inside town and get a self contained apartment.
But paying that one room apartment would give me access to electricity and others thing's I may want to access easily, but then, I also came up with another thoughts, because, If I should go inside town a little, I may get a self contained where I will be the only one using the facilities in the room, and beside, I know how troublesome it can gets when a lot of people are sharing the same facility.
Therefore, I decided to sacrificed access to electricity and good road, then go for comfort, yes, right now, I do not get report or give report to anyone about who failed to sweep the restroom but I am using it my way and I keep it tidy.
This is why people have bad neighbors, if we stay in a place that so many facilities are shared, but we are able to bypassed the too much sharing of items in the kitchen which can brings disputes, I do not think that we can still bypass having a bad neighbor when we are still sharing the same restroom and toilet everyday.
Sharing of the same facilities brought a lot of disputes and the funniest thing is, if the present issues is solved, another one would come up, since it relates with people of different levels of reasoning.
Above all, at any place I stay, I take everyone as my family, and I interact when I have time to.
Thanks for reading, see you in my next post, cheer's.