Happy weekend my beautiful people, grace, excitement and much love would follow us this weekend.
Sliding into the topic: sex on first date, yes or No?
I believe in so many things and those things are love, sex and fantasies, it is okay to have sex on first date because sex comes from the heart, it doesn't matter on which occasion it occurred, as far it make us to feel fantasies, then it was a very good moment.
The conversation of sex on first date is debatable, because a lot of people believes that, sex on the first date is poor thinking and it shows low self esteem. For me, i think low self esteem is when we acts in so many wrongful ways, self esteem has nothing with basic needs, so it's capital Nah, I don't take it that way, unless, the sex was not enjoyable or we did it out of our own will, which I believed that, no civilized person would want to force someone to had sex in this our days.
Well, I have been a good listener to such discussion in the past, and the way, I classified people who said that, sex on first date is going to make them had low self esteem was just like, maybe, they have not really fall in love.
I have been in a relationship where I met a girl online and we talked for so many months, without meeting one another, it happens that, I was on camp when we started getting along so fine and she said, she has accepted to be my friend, then when I came back from the NYSC orientation camp, we fixed a meet up point, it was the first time we met and the biggest fun took place that day.
I am not cheap because I had sex or something on the first day I met her in person, but everything that happened was out of love and till today I still cherish each and everything we shared together, we are still best of friends.
Life is just the way we want it to be for us, if a person wants to have an easy life, he would be doing everything to suits his liking.
Yes, sex on first date still has some criteria though and that's, maybe, two persons met and there are staying in a close location, one can choose not to get in so quick, because, they can see, talked and see themselves to confirmed if they're really going to make a good relationship.
Meeting someone on the internet and the person is staying in a long distance, would hold no pride to enjoy all the funful excitement on the day of meetup.
Yes, I can rightly said this, I see people who meet on the internet and who has gotten married after they have met, to me, love is more than blind, it's something unthinkable, it can make us do stupid things and anything coming out of love is always sweet and exciteful.
But this days, many people do not consider, first time meet up to be a reason why fun shouldn't be shared, when two people are in love, they behaves in unrealistic manners.
I support sex on first date on the ground when there is love between the two people.
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