Being in a relationship is like a volleyball that drives our heart, sometimes we do not think of ourself but the other person, see it like a bright morning sun that never seized to shine early in the morning.
But, they are some people who do not want to date someone they are not in the same age bracket, some want their partner to be someone who senior them and some want to senior their partner, and it's only then, they will feel that the relationship is suitable.
Speaking of what I like, I do not consider age as a thing in a relationship, mine is, trying to figure out if I love her?. Once, I figure it out, and know how I feel about the person, then I have make my choice.
I was in conversation with someone, yes, a female friend, and when we discussed about age in a relationship, she make it known that, she can't date or be in a relationship with someone who she senior, I asked why?
And, her response was that, because she would not be able to respect him, i was surprised, because, as long as I know, a person only stop to show respect if he/she wants to do so, it doesn't have to be because of age.
But I also understand her point, that in as much we do not like something, there is no need for us to try to do it, with the way I see relationship, I think, for it to be heathy, it must be play by understanding and love.
Age does not make a relationship to be sweet or something, because if age play all the concert in it, what is going to happen, if we meet someone who is more elder or younger, that means, we are to break apart from then.
We are in a relationship when we show commitment and let the person's success be our success, and the same goes to when they are going through hard times.
Moreover, I have met guys who believed that, they can not date someone who is older than them, that is, they must senior a lady, before they are in a relationship, hearing things like this, doesn't just make sense to me, if I am to say a thing further in it, I will asked the person to check very well if they are really talking about love.
Love doesn't check all that, when we finds someone we truly love, we can go milestones, in the face of love, nobody is tough, that is what I know and I have witnessed it, so, for me, if someone make age a reason to love.
I will just understand that he/she doesn't really fallen in love, and when they do, the subject will be more understood to them.