Last night, a friend approach me with message, he is someone who share some minor challenges that needs to be share with me, and I think I do the same, especially when I need someone to have a free flow moment with, i go to him and talk about it.
So, yesterday, I think the matter was more deep, and he went ahead and aspire on what would be my response, according to the situation, he had some issues with his dates and that makes the both of them to be avoiding talking to each other for a while now, and it is up to a week since the issue took place.
To me, it wasn't a good sign and that alone night affect the health of the relationship, because relationship grows on day to day communication and absent of it may trigger another element which might not be favorable to the health of the hearts.
My friend thoughts i was going to asked him to continue holdhg back those calls and to leave everything just as it has been for a week, because In most of the talks we used to have with each other, I always stood for him, but in this situation, i was acting different and I was more concerned, therefore, I told him what he should have done since.
My response was that he called her, talked to her, and if needs arises for an apology, he should apologize, at these point, i was not talking to him again, because i wanted him to call her, so this morning, i am seeing the good message of thanks and happiness from my friend, for telling him to do what was right to be done.
I know sometimes looking people in the face and telling them the truth might hurt the person(s) and also, might spoiled the happy or playful moments they had, but that still remains the best thing to do when it is necessary.
Most love come to an end when it should not have been so, just because of too much pride from the person(s) and not taking the blame, and apologize for peace to continue to flourish.
I have seen people like that, who always do not want to see things out in whatever dealings they are into, even when it has gotten out of hands and others saw it, felt bad and throw in their advise as well, so that to make the corrections they could not done, yet he/she would stop to accept to what is right and tends to live with pomposity
Yes, a person need not to loose his/her self esteem, but i think that, it is not good to lived a pompous lifestyle, there is a good way we should handle things, so that we continue going forward.