It is not surprising anymore that a greater number of people would accept with me that being popular comes with many prizes, and one of it is what I am going to reveal on this writing.
People who are popular receive backlash a lot of times, because almost everything they do, and places they go, people would want to talked about it, also, people mentions their names on matters that do not concerned them at all.
Then, if a day comes that they take a little bit of their lifestyle to the internet, fans and people who know them would say a whole lots of things about it.
I see it on social media how fans drags well known personality's in a matter that do not even concerned them at all, and most of the person's who are well known by a lot of people are used to having their name mentioned anywhere and at anytime.
Unless it is the person's that do not know what he/she is into, are the one's that would keep on buzzing everywhere he is mentioned.
Few years ago, there was this entertainer in Nigeria that did something like this, what happened was that, within those times, he became a well known entertainer, he was landing in many places where people mentioned his name.
He was just there, to either slammed back at the people talking bad about him or give thanks to the ones who speak good about him.
And within those period of him becoming a well known personality, he was just everywhere, but for the facts that, he was an entertainer, somehow, it was an advantage for him as he becomes the most mentioned singer in the country and that alone add value in pushing his music higher.
But can this lifestyle work so well for someone who isn't an entertainer?, i think the answer would best answer by the individual himself.
I have seen why many people tried as much as possible to keep privacy in their life and know when to take certain things concerning their life to the internet.
In as much it is good to socialize, privacy in our life is a must, we should always take note of it in our daily dealings, like me, I can say all lots of things about myself, but there are still things I wouldn't want to say or share about myself and, maybe, I found out that, if I should say this things, I am going to hurt the next person or maybe, finding out that words isn't suitable at that particular moment.
There are words for every moment, I learned this the time I was in a meeting, In that gathering, I was not quick to make my contributions to the agenda, as i was listening to people.
Then a person who was also in the gathering, said that it was my turned to make a contribution.
I hold back myself, because I was not yet ready for it, beside, my contribution would have been in opposite, so hearing that, they were all agreed on one thing, I find it not suitable to say my mind, because, it would have come out in opposite and I did not want to spoiled their mindset.
Beside, I can't be the only one at the opposite side, I accepted what everyone agrees and it was just as simple as that.
Have you been the only opposition in a gathering?, have you been slammed because a lot of people knows your personality? share with me....