I know being good all the times might somehow be difficult, but I prayed that I have the strength to continue to be good to myself and to those around me.
I feels most of the times that, it doesn't make any sense to be this annoying person who make others feels pains and want to cry.
Life challenges alone that people encountered everyday is a pain, so adding in a bit of an unhappy situation is just like adding more salt to the meal that the cook was looking for a way to make it taste delicious.
Someone like me, I am too emotional, I hardly watched it when someone is crying, it will be either I make the person to stop crying or I go away from there, if the situation was such that I can not control.
I used to reason most of the times about, "the things that we should do to make others people happy, but the first thing is, I have to start with myself and be showing the example, if I believed making people happy is a good thing to do.
In my life, i just want to be doing good things, I do not mind what it could cost me, although sometimes, people who are good are taken granted and at some point, people might refused to see that, their presence add value, but that isn't true, because everything has importance.
I used to sent good morning messages to my friends, as a sign of love and to show that someone care for them and in their daily hustle they are not alone.
So, earlier this morning, I received a message from a friend, he was asking me, "why haven't I been writing him again in the morning, my reasons was because he has refused to be opening those messages, and I was now wondering, if I was adding more salt to his cooked meal, that was how I stopped giving him those messages.
But earlier today, he make me to understand that, even if he didn't opened them, I should have been aware that, he has been seeing them, and they mean a lot to him.
But for me, I didn't know, because he has never for once talked about it, or reply me anytime to enable me know how he was feeling as well.
Therefore, he told me "thank you, that out of the many people he knows, only few gave him a message of good wishes, I was happy that I make him had a great time in his daily hustle all those times, even while I felt he was not appreciating it.
How do you feel when someone do not reply your message, do you write or texts them another time or you overlooked them, share with me, I want to learn from others people's experiences.
