I feel really sad when I see that things are not going in the way it should be, but, If there is something I will never do, that will be to get moved with the things I see, I believed, every person's is blessed with the capability to turned things around and make it into that favorable atmosphere he/she want.
I am not a fashion type, but it does not means I overlooked fashions, what I wouldn't want is, for anybody to give me go ahead before I wear on clothes that I want to, because that is how it all start, and before we realize it, we will have to buys tons of clothes into our wardrobe, just because people once told us that the clothes we have do not suit us.
The way I lived my life, and which I do not ever think I will change is, never to be too needy on things, especially, materia things.
Once I was invited to a wedding, it was a wedding of my friend, and a lot of people were attending, I was among friend's Invited by the groom, we were to sew and wear a style of dress, the color of the event were purple, yellow and white, and it was for all the people attending to choose any of the three colors and make sew.
We decided on sewing a purple material but to make the hand of the shirt white, while the trouser would be purple through out, therefore I took the material to my tailor, he measured me and we agreed on the date I am to received the dress.
Getting to that event date, I didn't wear as plan, I changed it and put on the purple trouser and a white shirt entirely, the reason was, because my tailor informed me that, my material wasn't enough, so he didn't bother and had to sew just the trouser, then, as a not too much fashion person, i was free with what I wear and that was how I attend the event.
For me, the clothes wasn't the best part, but what I took important was me, being present that day and sharing in the joy of my friend who got married.
Yet, as I got there, it appeared that everyone were looking at me, I think I was looking different among the groom friends, because it was me alone who put on white shirt and a purple trouser, others were on purple up and down and white on the hand of their shirts.
In the venue, I was seen as the next in line that will get married, because most of the lady's wanted a photo with me and I was just wow!, that I am looking cute.
I remember it wasn't intentional to wear differently, but, because the material wasn't enough to cover me up and down, i felt bad about it at first, but it turns out that, the way I appear was the best.
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Wes & Grindan