The comment you made here was all but friendly while you are solely responsible for your mistake.
We reply to comments regularly, sometimes several times per day, but we are not 24x7 in front of a computer.

when you said I didn't send any hive you could have said that I sent the wrong thing.

Once again you blame it on us. We couldn't know what you did, and it's not for us to guess. You claimed to have sent HIVE, without further details, which was not the case. Period!

I didn't even know swap.hive was different from hive.

Now you know. There are hundreds of participants in the contest, even newbies
Only a few of them made a mistake, but they contacted us in a friendly way or have it rectified on their own without blaming others.
This is why we find your behavior rude.